harlo Malaysia..........

harlo peeps....
watchu all doing???? ada sihat kah??? sudah makan dan kenyang kah??? sudah siap assignment kah??? sudah prepare untuk exam kah??? dan bermacam2 kah lagi kah..... hahahahha....

actually,the reason im soooo rajin to update my blog sb im soooo boring....hahaha...boring for a busy person??? shud tat happen??? NO NO NO...actually, .................................. lets the reason be a secret between me n my heart..... lets my heart n mind figure out what should i do.....argh!!!! i hate when i have this feeling.....i hate when im in this situation.... i hate i hate i hate.....

hah, on tuesday i went for an interview...it is call the work from home...im so semangat to work and i register my name with tat company n i went for interview tat nite (thx Dear for sending me even u is soooooo bz tatday...)..i was aspecting other job but tengok2 it is the herbalife MLM job -Multi Level Marketing...macam bodoh ja....hancur musnah all my impian of being employed...nak kuaq shopping ngan kamariah pon dh xleh sb impian ku musnah di tengah jalan....huhuhuhu....xpa xpa,mesti ada keja lain...

after i finish up my exam, im planning to go kL n work...i wanna stay with my sis...i wanna be far far far far far far far away from everybody....i wanna be independent....i wanna have my own life... everything i wanna do on my own....even though ppl say kL is not a good place to work, but i still wanna go there....and i will go...no body can stop me....but first of all, am i ready to go into the working world?????? wakakakakaka.......xpa,demi duit dan keta myvi SE and shoes and watches and handbagsssssss and and and and and and...ill make my self ready....hahahaha....

btw,sapa yang blom tengok citer meatball kt cinema tuh, p la tengok...tersangat lah best yg teramat....but b4 hampa semua p tengok, make sure ampa makan banyak2 dulu sb takot ampa semua terlapaq plak masa tengok gambaq tuh...hahahaha....

its time for me to go n meet my lecturer d.....daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa........

Low Blood Pressure...

i went to the doctor on friday and he say my difficulty in breathing caused by the low blood pressure that im having...hadoi....my chest is super tight right now....i need iron tablet so that my chest will be back to normal....help help....any idea how to increase my blood DRASTICALLY tak????? i need BLOOD!!!!!! i nak jadi Dracula...huhuhuhu.......

im sooooooooooo busy lately...

hello peepsss....sorry la,lama gila x update blog nih...super duper bz lately...dgn assignment nak siapkan, dgn my dad admitted hospital and mcm2 lah....

i just cant wait for my degree to complete within this 3 weeks....i have 3 assignment to submit in 2 weeks time, 1 presentation to go and 1 final paper is waiting....huhuhuh....by doing all this, ill be graduating with BA(Hons) Business Management...wuhuuuuuuuuu.....doakan lah everything goes smoothly and i wont have any paper to repeat....hohohoh....but at the same time,im so sad coz ill be leaving the college world....i've been in disted for abt 4.5 years....2.5years doing my dip and 2 years doing my degree....there will be no class to attend...i cant laugh and jokes all day long wif my frens...rasa mcm baru thn lepas i start my dip and in 3weeks time, ill be completing my degree...oh TIDAAAAAK!!! betapa tua nya aku skrg!!!!

i still dont have any plan after my exam....i dont know where to apply job...rasa malas nak keja la plak...hehehe....nak dok rumah and lepak n buang masa....but i cant...i need to work....dpt gaji banyak2,den bleh p shopping...hah,masa tuh baru bleh geng ngan kamariah perabih duit...wakakakka....kamariah,here i come!!!!!!

hah,my BFF is getting engage in december...im sooooooo happy for u siraj!!!!! i jz cant wait to go for ur engagement!!!! aku doakan kan jodoh hg panjang smp ke jinjang pelamin,den buat baby banyak2 n ampa 2 akan bersama hingga ke akhir hayat.....ps-hg blom intro dia kt aku lagi naaaa....aku sedang menunggu nih....wakakkakakak....


siraj and me....

Dating Tips: 8 Habits That Wreck Your Relationship

#1. Having an affair with his "potential"

Wanting your man to be the best version of himself is admirable, but approaching his looks and personality with "Extreme Makeover" ambition will do little more than erode his self-esteem and leave you both frustrated and resentful. "If you and your partner believe that love means acceptance, pushing him to change and criticizing him is going to send him the opposite message. What he hears is you aren't good enough.

How to rebuild: This is where the old 80-20 rule can be used to the benefit of both of you. Spend at least 80 percent of your time together letting your partner know all the things you adore and appreciate about him, so that when you mention something you don't like, it doesn't feel like another item on a long list of failures.

#2. Major mood swings

We're living in some pretty anxiety-inducing times, and when life takes a stressful turn, it's not uncommon for couples to start taking out that stress on each other. While the occasional mood swing can -- and should -- be forgiven, being in a relationship with someone whose bad moods outnumber her good ones can make a man run for cover. Wouldn't you do the same?

How to rebuild: The next time you catch yourself taking a downturn, take a moment to consider what kind of impact your moods are having on your man and the relationship. "If a woman is too moody, we start to walk on eggshells because we just don't want to deal with the drama," says Matt, 31, of San Diego.

#3. Gossip

Talking to pals about your love life is a normal part of friendship, but if you're calling your BFF, your sister, and your mom every time your man pisses you off, you're not only going to wind up embarrassed when the storm passes, you'll also find yourself in a relationship with someone who feels violated and judged. "As a couple, private information should stay private or you risk damaging your reputation as a couple, which in turn may isolate you from others and sever your relationship," says Dan Schawbel, personal branding expert and author of "Me: 2.0." Remember that word of mouth is a powerful force, and it can hurt your reputation if your mate or others brand you as untrustworthy."

How to rebuild: The next time you log on to his computer and find an improper download, resist the urge to get on the phone and vent to your top five. Instead, sit down and talk things out with the one person who can help you work through it. If you're not sure how to approach him about a certain topic, sit down and write him a letter. (Helpful hint: Sit on it for 24 hours to make sure it says what you really want to say and isn't just filled with angry words and blame.)

#4. Melodrama

If you're calling him in tears every time your coworker irritates you, deleting him from Facebook during every argument, and threatening to end the relationship over him leaving the toilet seat up (again!), he might start looking for a new leading lady. "Men have a tendency to really like low-maintenance girls when it comes to relationships," says Kristian, 35, of New York City. "We're pretty lazy in general, and it's exhausting when you need to work so hard to make someone happy and calm them down every day."

How to rebuild: Save the details of your office drama for brunch with the girls, and the next time you feel your inner Heidi Montag moving center stage, take a deep breath and rate the situation on a scale from 1 to 10. If it scores below a 5, let it go and save award-worthy performances for anything above a 9 (cheating, insulting your boss at your holiday party, etc.).

#5. "Mom-ing" him

Your man loves his mama and he loves you, but when you're the one telling him to stop playing Guitar Hero, scoffing at his lack of manners, or informing him he can't go out with his pals because he has a "big day tomorrow," it's anything but appealing. He'll not only resent that you're trying to control him, but he'll also likely do what all children do when they're being reprimanded -- rebel. "Scolding your mate creates an unhealthy dynamic of parent-child relationship, which automatically puts your partner into a child role and you into the role of mom," says Jeannine Estes, M.A, a marriage and family therapist and author of "Relationships in the Raw." "Children often do the opposite when they feel as if they don't have a choice, and this is similar for couples."

How to rebuild: "Instead of scolding or telling him what to do or not do, try to ask for your needs in a clear and respectful way and avoid using the 'mother' tone," says Estes. "Share with your partner the importance of your needs rather than demanding or scoffing at what he has or hasn't done right. Also, scolding him like you are his mother can put you in a parent role, carrying the relationship without any assistance or partnership."

#6. Too much together time

Spending time with your guy is one of the best parts of being in a relationship, but there's a big difference between bonding and being joined at the hip. "Many men are attracted to secure, independent women," says Stacey Rosenfeld, Ph.D, a New York City psychologist. "Once in relationships, women may tend to become more dependent, to demand more time and attention of their partners. This can represent a problem, as often men need more space than women."

How to rebuild: Remind your guy of the independent and fabulous woman he was initially attracted to by indulging in your favorite pastimes and enjoying your friends without him every once in a while. By flashing your independence, you'll not only give him a chance to miss you but also have interesting things to share with him when you meet up.

#7. Jealousy

He lets you know how much he loves you constantly, but that doesn't stop you from checking his phone when he's in the shower or sending every pretty girl he talks to eye-daggers. Although a tiny bit of jealousy in a relationship is normal, accusing your man of cheating and questioning his whereabouts every time he walks in will have him feeling controlled, manipulated, and insulted. "Jealousy in a relationship, or even personally, is the spiritual equivalent of dumping hydrochloric acid on the person," says 33-year-old Marc from Los Angeles. "Just sit back and prepare for the disintegration."

How to rebuild: Unless your man has said or done things to make you suspicious, your jealousy is more about your relationship with yourself than you two as a couple. Back away from his computer and check out your own history. Were you betrayed in the past? Did you grow up in a household where the fidelity vows were broken? There might be ways in which you are allowing unresolved issues from your past to dictate your present behavior. If you don't feel you can overcome the green monster on your own, don't be afraid to reach out to a qualified counselor who can help you identify the sources of your insecurity and work through them.

#8. Getting too comfortable

In the beginning of a relationship, both parties make sure to look and act their best, but as time moves on, the sweatpants come out and routine takes over. "People tend to get lazy in their relationships, and while it's good to be comfortable, no one wants to be boring or to be bored," says Lissa Coffey, author of "What's Your Dosha, Baby? Discover the Vedic Way for Compatibility in Life and Love."

How to rebuild: Men love to be seduced and romanced as much as we do, and part of what makes the courtship phase of relationships so fun is the experience of uncovering the mystery of another and trying new things together. "When a woman stops making an effort to look nice for her man and expects him to take care of all the stuff in the romance department, a man begins to feel taken for granted and thinks that she doesn't care about impressing him anymore," says Brian, 30, of New York City. Show your guy he's still worth the effort by surprising him with a break from the ratty T-shirt you wear to bed, a sweet note, or planning a special night out for him "just because." He'll not only appreciate it, he'll also reciprocate -- and that's a give and take to get excited about.

Jangan Dibuat Ketika Bercinta!

Kata orang, saat bercinta anda boleh melakukan apa sahaja kerana si dia sangat menyayangi anda. Tetapi anda harus berhati-hati, bukan semua perkara boleh dilakukan sesuka hati.

Jika anda tidak mahu si dia berkecil hati dengan sikap anda, jangan sekali-kali melakukan perkara di bawah ini. Jika anda melakukannya juga, tidak mustahil perhubungan yang telah dibina sejak sekian lama itu akan terlerai di pertengahan jalan.

Jalan terbaik, lebih baik anda berdiam diri dan menyemai cinta abadi bersama si dia.

1. Jangan suka membandingkan
Tiada sesiapa di dunia ini yang suka diperbandingkan dengan sesiapa sahaja. Lebih nahas jika anda cuba membandingkan kekasih hati anda dengan jejaka atau gadis lain terutamanya bekas kekasih yang pernah bersama dengan kamu sebelum ini. Perbandingan yang anda lakukan sebenarnya mampu mengguris hati si dia sekaligus mengganggu kelancaran perhubungan anda. Sebaiknya, terima dirinya dengan seadanya dan lupakan kisah cinta yang pernah anda jalinkan bersama insan lain.

2. Jangan menipu
Di dalam sesebuah perhubungan, sikap saling mempercayai dan jujur antara satu sama lain sangat dipentingkan. Jika anda selalu menipu dan akhirnya diketahui oleh si dia, sudah pasti si dia tidak akan mempercayai anda lagi. Sekalipun dia memaafkan anda, rasa terluka pasti akan sentiasa bermain-main di dalam jiwanya. Jalan terbaik jangan sekali-kali berbohong walaupun ada ketikanya hakikat yang diterima sangat menyakitkan. Sesiapa sahaja sukakan insan yang jujur untuk mendampingi mereka.

3. Jangan berahsia
Sebagai pasangan kekasih, anda seharusnya mengelakkan sikap berahsia dengan si dia. Sikap yang terlalu suka berahsia kebiasaannya akan membawa kepada penipuan dan akhirnya kecurangan. Oleh itu, di dalam hubungan cinta, cubalah minimumkan kerahsiaan anda dengan si dia. Sikap terbuka yang anda pamerkan sudah pasti memberikan rasa gembira kepada si dia.

4. Jangan lupa hari penting dirinya
Si dia mungkin tidak mengharapkan hadiah mahal daripada anda. Cukuplah sekadar sekeping kad ucapan sebagai tanda anda mengingatinya. Kalau anda seorang yang pelupa, catatkan hari-hari penting si dia di dalam diari dan berikan sedikit kejutan buatnya. Kirimkan sekuntum bunga pada hari bahagianya. Kuntuman bunga itu sudah pasti mampu membuatkan bibir si dia tersenyum bangga sepanjang hari.

5. Jangan mulakan pertengkaran
Jika asyik bergaduh, siapa yang akan tahan. Oleh itu jangan sekali-kali memulakan pertengkaran. Apatah lagi untuk isu-isu yang kecil serta remeh-temeh. Cuba bersikap matang dan berikan peluang kepada si dia untuk memberikan penjelasan. Andainya timbul perselisihan atau pertengkaran dalam perhubungan, tidak salah jika anda beralah. Selesaikan ketidaksefahaman dengan tenang. Jika si dia masih ‘panas’, tunggu masa yang sesuai untuk berbincang.

6. Jangan mengongkong
Pada hari ini semua orang keluar bekerja untuk mencari rezeki. Oleh sebab itu jangan sekali-kali anda mengongkong pergerakannya. Jika sekali-sekala dia mahu menghabiskan masa bersama rakan-rakannya, beri keizinan. Sikap anda yang bijak bertolak ansur bukan sahaja amat disenanginya, malah rakan-rakan baiknya juga senang hati dengan perhubungan yang terjalin antara si dia dan anda.

7. Jangan terlalu cemburu
Tidak salah untuk cemburu, tetapi biarlah bersebab. Sikap cemburu yang membabi-buta kadang-kala akan menghancurkan sesuatu ikatan. Usahlah terlampau cemburu sehingga dia tidak merasa bebas untuk melakukan aktiviti yang digemarinya. Jika anda terus dengan sikap cemburu itu, bersedialah anda untuk kehilangan insan tersayang.

8. Jangan berpura-pura
Usahlah keterlaluan menguji cintanya terhadap anda. Sikap anda yang keterlaluan mungkin akan memakan diri. Bukan semua orang boleh bertahan apabila selalu diuji. Lambat laun pasti si dia akan bertindak meninggalkan anda kerana dia beranggapan anda tidak mempercayai dirinya. Paling teruk jika si dia sudah tawar hati dengan anda. Sudah pasti sukar untuk dipujuk lagi.

9. Jangan tunjukkan rasa bosan
Mungkin anda tidak suka dengan hobinya, tetapi jangan sekali-kali menunjukkan sikap bosan di hadapannya. Sebaiknya anda cuba semaikan sikap meminati aktiviti yang disukainya itu. Lebih baik jika anda dapat bersama-samanya melakukan aktiviti tersebut. Dengan cara itu anda bukan sahaja dapat menarik perhatiannya, malah secara tidak langsung mampu mengawal pergerakan si dia. Maklumlah anda mempunyai hobi dan minat yang sama. Tidak mustahil kawan-kawan anda juga serupa.

10. Jangan menjatuhkan air mukanya
Elakkan melakukan perbuatan yang boleh menjatuhkan air mukanya secara sengaja ataupun tidak sengaja. Jika anda secara tidak sengaja melakukannya, segeralah meminta maaf apabila anda menyedarinya. Paling penting jangan ulangi kesilapan serupa kerana si dia pasti bosan dengan tingkah laku anda yang agak kasar itu.

Raya and Holidayzzzzzzzzzzzz.....

lamanya x update blog nih...almaklum la,cuti raya n bz sambut saya...semuanya raya raya raya...not deco deco deco...hahaha....

where should i begin???

first of all,ill start wif my raya celebration la...raya was fun n so so ok la...sejak meningkat muda (ahem) nih,duit raya pon dah kurang...sungguh tidak best....

on the 3rd raya raya,went out wif my Dear...kononnya2 nak p holiday la...but we went to butterfly farm je...i ni jd tourist la n my Dear plak pemandu pelancong....he need 2 drive me mana saja i wanna go...so schweet Dear...hehehhe.....





there is also the siblings day out...kami semua p Hard Rock Hotel lepak2 n minum2....








after raya kat penang, i went to KL....p holidays.....
bestnya wen dpt release stress n tension....




aunty nits tengah gaduh with anisah
untuk kunci kereta...notty anisah....

on sunday, i went to watch ATP final match kat Bukit Jalil wif my sis n my Dear sis...








at nite i went to my cousin wedding at dewan banquet, UPM....







and my lovely nieces that fills my days......





I just LOVE my days recently.....